There is a difference between physical turn ons and psychological turn ons.
Physical turn ons is for sex. Psychological turns ons is for long term relationships.
A females physical turn ons are
1. To be desired
Women like to be pursued, not because they are difficult, but because it turns them on. When they feel beautiful and attractive, they get turned on.
So, as a man, you must approach, take lead and display confidence as this makes her feel beautiful and turns her on.
2. An adventure
Women enjoy a variety of emotions as it is adventure for her. Life is boring. If she wants a boring person, she can just be home alone. She is with you because she wants an adventure.
So, as a man, display higher energy than her. Add value to her life and tell exciting stories about you and your current busy lifestyle. She will than want to get to know you better.
In spite of wanting an adventure, she does not want to be in pain, if the adventure fails. An adventure always involves risk. She wants to feel safe that in the end, she will be okay.
So, as a man, display intelligence, wisdom, success and happiness in your conversations, appearance and lifestyle.
Female's psychological turn ons are
1. Dependability and reliability
For a long term relationship, she will look for someone who has wealth, success, and health.
2. Physical Turn Ons
If you cannot turn her on physically, she would not want you for a long term relationship.
Trust, responsibility and loyalty to a relationship is vital to ensure she can have children with you.