How to be a gigolo

More precisely, have a gigolo mindset.

Chances are you are thinking it is the man's job to pay for her time and attention she is offering you. And you would be more than happy to do so.

But a gigolo has women pay for companionship. Why would women want to pay a gigolo for companionship when they can have someone like you who will pay and listen to all her problems?

This is a where you need to change your mindset and ask yourself what would it take for you to become a successful gigolo?

1. Gigolo offers great companionship, great ideas and can lead because he has the experience and knowledge around his environment and is willing to take risk to learn new environments.

2. Gigolo is not embarrass to be with an unattractive woman because he knows he is helping her. A low self-esteem frustrated chump would feel embarrass to be with an unattractive woman because it is an indicator of his own beliefs that he is unworthy.

3. Gigolo knows when to walk away. It is not about the money, but her attitude. If she is gold digger, run fast. Leave her where she is and don't even bother driving her home. A low self-esteem frustrated chump will stay till the end. He will accept everything she throws because he is hoping by putting up with her, he can get some intimacy. The truth is gold diggers don't give intimacy. Gold diggers know once the intimacy is offered, the gold stops coming.

Your best bet is to find females that you can stimulate emotionally, first. And that is the skill you should aim to master!

Freedom is not what women want

Frustrated men think they have something to offer because they give women freedom. They think by letting women make the decisions, they would be appreciative and reciprocate. And when that does not happen, frustrated men become angry.

Woman don't need a man to give her freedom. She already has freedom. 

Women want stimulus. Women want a man that has an idea as to where to take them, how to interact and how to stimulate her emotions.

That is, don't ask her what she likes. Don't ask her what she likes to do for fun. Instead, offer something to do. Offer fun things to do. Offer stimulating things to do.

To do that, a man must be able to go out there and experiment with new activities. See what's fun and see what works. Then, he has the experience and knowledge to offer these activities to others.

That is, take initiative, go alone and experiment. Once you gain the experience and consider the activity stimulating, bring a partner.

Inner Beauty

Everyone has flaws. Whatever situation you are in, whether you are short, fat, ugly, skinny, big nose, missing a limb, there is someone out there worse off than you. More importantly, they may also be happier than you.

If you accept the cards you are dealt with and still aim to enjoy life, in spite of your flaws, you can thrive.

Why? Because there is a level of attractiveness, of true confidence, to those who has big flaws and still able to enjoy life to its fullest. We respect, admire and even cheer on those who have lost so much, yet continue to live a happy life. We learn and appreciate our own lives when we see others had been dealt a worse deck of cards in life and able to live a happier existence.

Yes, there will be lots who will reject you because of your flaws. But there will also be those who admire and are attracted to you because you are able to enjoy life in spite of your flaws. 

Me, I am shorter than 5'4. I get plenty of rejections and I can always blame my height as the cause. But, there will also be those who admire and even attracted to my enthusiasm in spite of my flaws.

In the past, I use to downplay my flaw as being unimportant or irrelevant. But I was just in denial leading me to become egotistical and arrogant and unconsciously looking for flaws in others so I can feel better about myself. The truth is, height is a very important factor. And that's okay. I am who I am.

It is not about being egotistical or arrogant. It is about being confident in that my flaws is my character, my personality because perfection is boring, in itself, a flaw.