Indicators of Disinterest

There are of course many IOD (Indicators of Disinterest), but I am referring to ones that men confuse them as IOI (Indicators of Interest)

1. She talks to you about all her problems. 

She is looking for a therapist. One that will listen to her. Any chump that is willing to listen and support her, she will offer her time. 

Once when she no longer needs a therapist and is looking for fun, she will find someone else who does not know her embarrassing past.


2. When you just meet her, she does not act happy or try to be happy. 

Showing a positive attitude is an indicator she cares about what you think of her. 

Female that show any interest in you will want to make sure she is at least pretending to be happy to meet you.


3. She does not care how she treats you.

She will ask you to buy her drinks. She will ask you to buy stuff even if she does not want it. She does not care that you are wasting money. After all, it is not her money. You can call these females gold diggers. She does not care if you walk away. She does not care to lose you. 

If you stay, you will lose all your money.


4. She leads the interaction. 

She only cares about her wants. She does not care about your wants. So she leads the conversation. She talks about what she wants to talk about. She leads date. She wants you to drive her to places she wants to go. She calls you only to drive her home.

Now, there is actually a lot of men that fall for this type of female. Men have a misconception that to get her to like you, you are suppose to give her what she wants and ignore your own wants. The reality is, if she likes you, she will be interested in doing what you want. At least, be willing to negotiate the activities. If she likes you, what she wants is to spend time with you and it does not matter where you take her. So do things that you both enjoy, not just put up with her self-centered desires.


5. She does not offer any intimacy.

She does not want you to touch her. She does not want you to kiss her. She does not want you to put your arms around her. In general, females want intimacy. If she is spending time with you and not offering intimacy, then she is after something else. Maybe just companionship and put up with her spoiled ways.

If you ever run into these types of females, my suggestion is to simply walk away. She has an agenda and she is only interested in suckers to fill this role. 

The lesson learned here is not only to avoid these females, but you should question your own behavior and attitude to see if you are attracting these females. That is, if you do not lead, you can only attract females who lead. If you do not know what you want other than a hot girl, then you can only attract a hot girl who knows what she wants and she will mistreat you. 

That is why it is important to be a Alpha-Male. Otherwise, you can only attract Alpha-Females that will mistreat you.


Why not be her therapist?

Whatever emotion she has, it is not because it is a problem. It is because she wants it to be that way.

In general, applying to all genders, if you are angry, it is because you to be angry. If you are happy, it is because you want to be happy.

How does this help? 

First, there is no need to solve her emotions because you are taking away something she wants.

So rather than trying to help solve her emotions, simply accept and acknowledge that she is the type and these emotions benefit her in some way.

Knowing that about her, go along with it and see how you can make it work.

Furthermore, if she is telling you all her problems like the guy she likes or that she is depress, it is an indicator of disinterest. She does not care what you think of her and she is looking for a therapist to listen to her, but once she feels better, she will look for somebody who doesn't know about her problems. She is much too embarrassed to be with a stranger that knows her dark side.

Your strategy should be to lead the topic into something you like to talk about.

Misleading Indicator

Man A approaches a target and ask her to have sex.

Man B approaches a target and ask for friendship. 

A third person observing this would think Man B is moving in the right direction while Man A will fail miserably.

The reality is Man A is more likely to have intimacy with his targets.

Why?
Man A will fail miserably most of the time. He may even get slapped but there will actually be one in hundred chance that a female will accept his direct approach. Man B will get more friends, but it is not likely to lead to intimacy. Man A, with his direct approach saves time and can approach more targets. Man B will have to spend time talking to her and acting like he just wants to be her friend in order to continue his lie.

Man B, who appears more sincere is actually the more conniving one. He is pretending to want to be her friend, but the reality is he just wants to sleep with her just like Man A. So, in the beginning, the targets are more responsive to him, but may also manipulate him, try to get him to buy her drinks and try to get him to spend money on her. He may also get pity response which is certain to not lead to intimacy. At some point, Man B has to reveal his true motive, which she probably already knows. She would rather keep him as a friend and having intimacy with him would ruin their friendship.

The lesson:
Don't pretend you are not interested in intimate relationships. You are a man and you have desires. You are approaching her because you are interested in her, not because you are looking for more friends or in how her day went. If she accepts this fact, then she will not feel betrayed if you behave in an intimate manner. Secondly, if she does not accept your desires, then you can save time and move to another target quicker.