An attractive women needs to offer more than just her looks to be with you.
If she knows her looks is all you want, she will conclude you are just using her and only want to sleep with her.
If she has to work and pay attention to you, in order for you to be attracted to her, she will feel better about herself and feel you are more of a high-valued, selective, alpha male.
That is, for her to like you, she must treat you well. Do not settle for anything less.
1. Don't focus on what to say, focus on how you feel. How you feel will tell you what you want to say.
2. Don't focus on finding interesting things to say. Do focus on having a wide variety of things to say. The purpose of the conversation isn't to enjoy the topic, it is to enjoy the togetherness. If you have things to say that really interest her, she will be more interested in the topic than you -- no different than buying her a drink.
3. What you say will be forgotten. No one really cares.
4. The best thing to talk about is really non-sense things where she can evaluate and judge. That's right, non-sense. Such as
"Should I dye my hair blond?"
"How about a picture of you and me?"
"So should get my ears pierce?
These topics are non-sense because you already know the answer. They really serve no productivity purpose, but they serve a purpose for her.
Why are non-sense the best topic? Because on a conscious level, non-sense serve as a distraction. You are distracting her while the whole purpose is really to communicate to her on a subconscious level, to create emotions, togetherness and turn strangers into friends.
5. Keep the topics lighthearted and simple. If she want to learn the complexities of physics, she'd just read a book. She wants to relax and enjoy.
Sometimes, it takes a kick in the head for men to break out of their nice guy mind set. So for nice guys, here is your kick in the head.
1. Don't think seduction. Your strategy is to enslave her. Think enslavement.
2. Women want to be dominated and controlled.
3. Think how can you manipulate her emotions. How can you take total control of her and get her to feel the way you want her to feel.
4. Don't do what she wants. You do what you want. That is how you take charge and lead.
5. Women fall in love when they are complying to your needs.