Don't be approval seeking

When you see someone else that is taller, better-looking and richer, do you think to yourself why should she be with you when she can be with him?

(If you are thinking like that, than you are also attracting people who are also like that. Then, these people will never be attracted to you.)

Everyone has different meaning of success. One person's success means driving a fancy car and living in a luxurious mansion. There will certainly be plenty of targets interested in such a man. On the hand, another person's success means traveling around the world, not having to worry about maintaining cars and expensive houses. Once again, there will certainly be plenty of targets interested in this adventurous lifestyle as well. Both these people are successful in their own right. They may not necessarily attract the same type, but they will attract plenty because they are following their passion, not approval seeking and comparing themselves to other people's achievements. 

If you believe there is someone better than you (or worse than you) for whatever reason, than you will end up being approval seeking. 

Don't compare. Don't compete. Don't seek her approval. She needs a man who can lead and knows what he wants in life. Be the man who can live your passion.

It is okay to lie

1. If you want to be funny, you have to be able to lie. Being silly, exaggerating requires you to be imaginative that is beyond reality, beyond the truth.

2. You are not obligated to reveal your personal life story.

3. If you want to be friendly, you need to be able to lie. Sometimes, people just want an agreement. Sometimes, people just want your support. So if you are honest and you disagree with them, you could infuriate them. 

4. Don't take conversation with strangers so seriously. Being serious ruins the light and friendly mood. They are strangers and your job is to just be friendly. So look for ways to be friendly, not ways to be honest and serious.

5. It takes intelligence to be able to understand a joke. Being serious and honest is boring. Recognizing when someone is joking is fun.

6. To build rapport and be in sync with someone, you must be in agreement with them. So just open up your mind and accepting their style, you have to find a way to believe in them for that moment (even if you don't).