The purpose is NOT to get her to like you

She can like puppies, babies and her friends, but that does not mean she will sleep with them. She can feel sorry for her friend especially for the guy who cannot find a gf, but she will not be his gf or certainly not get intimate with him. She is already turned off by him. It would be embarrassing to be with someone who cannot find a gf.

She will like you if you treat her well, buy her drinks, take good care of her and suffer for her happiness, but once again, that does not mean she will get intimate with you.

The bottom line is, the only way she will get intimate with you, is if you can turn her on. And I have already explained this in my previous articles.

This is why people have the misconception that female like jerks. This is not really true. Whether he is a jerk or a nice guy is irrelevant. As long as he can turn her on, she can excuse, ignore and justify his terrible behavior so that she can get intimate with him.

Similarly, this also applies to men. She can mistreat him and he still will put up with it so as long as he thinks there is a chance. Why? Because he is turned on.

Female will get intimate even if she does not like him as long as he turns her on.

So stopped focusing on getting her to like you. Start focusing on getting her turned on.

Don't be approval seeking

When you see someone else that is taller, better-looking and richer, do you think to yourself why should she be with you when she can be with him?

(If you are thinking like that, than you are also attracting people who are also like that. Then, these people will never be attracted to you.)

Everyone has different meaning of success. One person's success means driving a fancy car and living in a luxurious mansion. There will certainly be plenty of targets interested in such a man. On the hand, another person's success means traveling around the world, not having to worry about maintaining cars and expensive houses. Once again, there will certainly be plenty of targets interested in this adventurous lifestyle as well. Both these people are successful in their own right. They may not necessarily attract the same type, but they will attract plenty because they are following their passion, not approval seeking and comparing themselves to other people's achievements. 

If you believe there is someone better than you (or worse than you) for whatever reason, than you will end up being approval seeking. 

Don't compare. Don't compete. Don't seek her approval. She needs a man who can lead and knows what he wants in life. Be the man who can live your passion.

How do you know when you are in the right mood?

When are you talking. When you are talkative.

If you ever find yourself asking the question, 

"Should I talk to her?"
"What should I say?"
"Will she reject me?"
"Is the timing, right?"

Then, chances are, you are not in the right mood. By being in a talkative mood, you simply just approach and start talking.