Freedom is not what women want

Frustrated men think they have something to offer because they give women freedom. They think by letting women make the decisions, they would be appreciative and reciprocate. And when that does not happen, frustrated men become angry.

Woman don't need a man to give her freedom. She already has freedom. 

Women want stimulus. Women want a man that has an idea as to where to take them, how to interact and how to stimulate her emotions.

That is, don't ask her what she likes. Don't ask her what she likes to do for fun. Instead, offer something to do. Offer fun things to do. Offer stimulating things to do.

To do that, a man must be able to go out there and experiment with new activities. See what's fun and see what works. Then, he has the experience and knowledge to offer these activities to others.

That is, take initiative, go alone and experiment. Once you gain the experience and consider the activity stimulating, bring a partner.

Key reason why you should not be a provider

Being a provider is a distraction.

It distracts her from being turned on. No one ever gets turned on by being given money. But if you start paying for everything she wants, then her pleasure and focus is shifted from delight in you to greed and what can she get from you.

So should you ever offer to pay before intimacy? The short answer is maybe.

The goal is still to get her turned on. Not to have her focus or worry about the bills. The idea is that you want her mind to enjoy the interaction with you, not enjoy the fact that you are paying for everything. So as long as the pleasure of the interaction is still delight in being with you, than you are in the right direction. 

Simply put, go to cheap places until she has proven herself.

Keep her mind busy

Keep her mind busy (stimulated) while warming up her body

Contrary to popular beliefs that the mind and body is one, I believe the mind and body are separate and can have two separate desires. What you say does not need to be consistent with what you do. What you say does not even need to be a turn on as she could be repulse by it. What you do, does! What you say needs to please her mind. What you do, needs to please her body.

The body's natural needs cannot be denied by the mind, hunger, pleasure, urges. 

The body's natural stimulant is to be touched. Due to social pressures, only the mind is disallowing such desires from the body.

If she is rejecting your advances, it is not because you need to change her mind, it is because you need to continue to turn her on more. 

Don't bother trying to change her mind, get her to take action which will stimulate her.

You can offer a high five to start off. Get her to smile. Maybe a kiss on the hand. Get her to put her hand on your shoulders. Take a photo together. Learn to dance. Get her to spin. Move her to a different location even if it is only ten feet away, it is stimulant! Because you are now in a different place with different scenes.