Egotisticals are show offs. They constantly brag about their success and enjoy laughing at other people's failures. They are very envious and competitive. They certainly are to be avoided because they can only bring you down and seek plesaure in doing so.
Egostictical people often have inferiority issues. The need to display superiority stems from an inferiority complex. If this is you, realize no one cares! No one cares what happened in your past and no one cares how successful you are now. Just present yourself as normal human being and there is no need to show off or show weakness.
Seduction is a game of sharing and postively stimulating each other. There is no competition and there is no such thing as winners or losers. Be helpful and learn to teach each other how to have more fun!