Similar to the follower, the reactor only responds to the environment, but doesn't influence it. The reactor extremely sensitive and fears being laughed at and taunted. Reactors are also prone to whining and complaining, two very anti-seductive traits.
If you find yourself as being this type of character, learn to relax. Learn to laugh at yourself.
Seduction is risk. You will get rejected. Learn to enjoy the pleasures of the rollercoaster ride of rejection and acceptance. Without rejection, acceptance would be no fun.