If you believe you need to manipulate her to be attracted to you, then you must have very low self-esteem!
In fact, I am willing to bet you that if your plan is to be somebody you are not, then you have not been successful in picking up.
What these articles is about is, first, to be and most importantly, accept and embrace yourself.
Then, to get excited about who you are and what you have to offer. This higher energy allows others to be proud to be around you. If you like who you are, that should be easy.
It is also about discovering your social skill errors and correcting them.
It is NOT about changing who you are from the core.
I am not teaching you to manipulate others because there really is no way. I am teaching my understanding of how the game is played and what the rules are.
She has no control of her desires. It is already pre-programmed in her genes. You have no control of your desires. It is already pre-programmed in your genes. Do not blame her for her desire of choice. You cannot blame yourself for your desire of choice.
It is a matter of understanding her desires and being able to fulfill them. What you will discover is that it is easiest fulfill when you are being yourself and improving your social skills. If she still does not like you, then so be it. You cannot attract everyone. You should, however, be able to attract a lot just by being yourself. Any other strategy is a recipe for failure.
You may argue what happens if being yourself means being an egotistical, self-centered, sadistic bastard? Would such a person be able to pick up? Even Charles Manson, a 5'4 serial killer gets fan mail and plenty of girls wanting to marry him in prison. I would, however, suggest you focus on your emotions which is probably in a state of anger as oppose to being in a state of joy. You need to be in a positive state of mind and to actually like people when you are approaching.
To hate people and approach them is also a recipe for rejection.