You do not need to be creative

When approaching, it would be fun if you found something creative to say, but there is no pressure to be creative. Simple questions work such as 

  1. Where are you from?
  2. What do you do for a living?
  3. How are you?
  4. How long long have to lived here?
The key is to display higher energy and enthusiasm when asking it. You must look like you want to be there, you want to talk to her and you have things to talk about.

Questions that don't work include

  1. What is the meaning of life?
  2. What do you do for fun?
  3. What are your hobbies?
  4. What do you think of me?
These questions are too complicated. Unless if you and her have an interest in the meaning of life, it is just too much energy to think about. The last three questions are approval seeking. Don't ask her questions about her just to figure her out. She doesn't know you that will to reveal herself to you.

Also, don't ask too many questions. Remember, question are value-takers. Start talking, tell stories, offer insight, ideas, and opinions. Although you don't need to be creative, you do need to be stimulating.
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